"I masturbate..."
When I masturbate, I have some rather elaborate fantasies involving dungeons, stables, or 3 gay boys in a grungy, poorly lit bathroom. But what I think is the most important aspect of masturbation for myself, is the act of connecting with my body and discovering its wants and needs. Of allowing myself the time and energy to please and love myself and thus be able to be pleased and loved by another. -Angrahad